To keep your scissors or pinking shears sharp, cut through a sheet of folded aluminium foil or coarse sandpaper.
Changing Spaces – Tips on Downsizing
I don’t know how many of you watch Location, Location, Location on the Lifestyle Chanel – I just love it!
All those gorgeous properties hand picked by Kirstie and Phil for your inspection, and then the excitement when the lucky buyers finally get the house they almost lost due to some dodgy building inspection. What we don’t see is the headache that follows when the featured couple actually have to move!
When moving house, your space most certainly will change, it will either be larger or smaller depending on your reason for moving.
The most challenging of Changing Spaces is downsizing particularly during the already anxious time of selling or buying a new home.
When downsizing, your goal is to simplify your life. You don’t need to get rid of everything that’s dear to your heart, but you do need to reduce the amount of belongings you have accumulated over the years. If you think about what you really use in your home on a day-to-day or week-to-week basis it amounts to a fraction of what is actually in your home.
The key component to downsizing is doing a possessions audit and matching it to your new living space. Read on for some tips and suggestions when starting the process of going through years of accumulated belongings in your home.
Begin in the areas of the house that you are currently not using, such as spare bedrooms, as this will be least disruptive to everyday life. These areas often contain items that have not been for some time and may not be missed when passed on to children, grandchildren, charity or the auction house.
When you have decided on which room to start with, make decisions on the large items in each room first and work your way down to the small items this way you won’t get overwhelmed and frustrated before you even get started.
Items can be sorted into:
- Keep – this includes items you are not willing to part with, and items you definitely want in your new home;
- Give –to family or friends;
- Sell – have a garage sale or auction on ebay;
- Donate – to a worthwhile charity; and
- Throw away.
To keep track where the items are going you can keep an inventory, separate the items into separate piles or mark the items with stickers, whichever works best for you.
Once you have made a decision on your belongings the trick is to act straight away by:
- Putting items to be thrown away into garbage bags and leaving out for collection.
- Calling your charity of choice and arranging for a pickup as soon as you have enough items to justify their making a trip.
- Asking family and friends to make arrangements to pick up their items or deliver to them.
It is also a good idea to work through this process even if you are upsizing! At the end of the day, Changing Spaces can be rather overwhelming however like any big project, just take it step by step.
Green Apple Sorbet (1 Serve)
- 2 Large Green Apples (Granny Smith)
- 2 Tablespoons Fresh Lemon Juice
- 1 Tablespoon White Sugar
- 80ml Apple Juice
- 1 drop Green Food Colouring
- 1 Spring of Fresh Mint for Garnish
Peel, cut and core 1 of the apples. Place apple in saucepan with 5 teaspoons lemon juice, sugar and apple juice. Bring to the boil and cook for approximately 3 to 5 minutes. Cool.
Puree in blender until smooth and transfer to a small bowl. Stir in food colouring and freeze. Puree in blender once more and return to freezer.
Cut top off remaining apple and hollow out inside with a melon baller leaving a small wall. Sprinkle remaining 1 teaspoon lemon juice inside of the apple to keep from turning brown.
Fill apple with sorbet.
Garnish with a mint sprig on top.
This recipe is for one serve, obviously increase quantities, if you are cooking for a crew!
Emotional Clutter
“Oh My God, I love that baking tray” she says hugging the sheet of metal to her chest. She blows the thick layer of dust from its surface. “It reminds me of when my Grandma used to bake for us, I have to keep it, I can’t possibly let it go.” She whispers through her tears.
This is a conversation we have most weeks (just interchange the baking tray with any number of objects!). You may even identify with this situation yourself. This is where a smooth sailing de-clutter hits an emotional cross-wind!
Reactions to objects are real; there are real tears and powerful emotions. These objects are powerful reminders of past activities, places and people.
I’ve yet to meet someone (myself included) who hasn’t kept a coaster from bar in Santorini, old school uniform (complete with everyone’s signatures from break up day), or perhaps a hand tool owned by your grandfather. It is perfectly healthy to keep mementos from you past; it creates part of your “story”.
It is when absolutely everything is kept when we strike some problems. When excessive collection/hoarding/gathering of items occurs, we are dealing with the Emotional Clutter. Emotional clutter is things with sentimental meaning but little financial value.
We need to be mindful of:
- the realities of where are the items going to be stored;
- the reality of why you kept the items in the first place;
- the reality of what “value” the items are going to add to your life today;
- the reality of how you want to live today (not yesterday, last year or last decade).
Working through the realities list can perhaps help start the elimination process, for example do you need 5 coasters from that bar in Santorini or just the one, do you need to keep every school book you had, or just the uniform, do you need to keep grandfathers broken ladder as well as the drill?
The ultimate goal when dealing with Emotional Clutter is to not “throw the baby out with the bath water”. The goal is to ensure that those items that create strong emotional responses are respected.
Because the baking tray simply must stay, then it needs to be treated with respect and moved to a place of honour, for example hung on the kitchen wall so that happy memory can be part of everyday life.
Other items which cause equally as strong emotions may need to be let go, for example all of little painting/craft/drawings brought home by the children. Throwing these away can just about break a mum! But what do you do when Johnny (now 15 years old) and couldn’t care less about all these things you have carefully collected for him (or you)?
Some solutions to reducing the clutter whilst retaining the items is to photograph them all and save them to CD; if they are for you, keep them for as long as you like or make them into a screen saver on your computer. If they are kept “because the kids might like to see them one day”, wait until they are older, leaving home or even parents themselves to see if they want them.
There are a variety of ways that you can deal with Emotional Clutter, it is a matter of recognising it, keeping a check on your realities and ensuring that you treat the items with respect.
Organising tip – bathroom
To Kill Mould (not just bleach it white), mix 3 drops of Oil of Cloves (available from Chemists) in 1 Litre of Water and spray on the mould or areas susceptible to mould and wipe down – all gone with no nasty fumes!
Do you really want to be a domestic goddess?
Well it would appear that most of us are certainly trying to be – or at least are in training for it!
A recent survey released by the Australian Bureau of Statistics revealed that too many of us are doing unpaid domestic work. You might ask “when did we ever get paid for it”, but why are we spending so much time doing it?
The survey asked 70,000 local women between 35 and 64 years how much unpaid domestic work they undertook each week. Of these women an astounding 70% did at least 15 hours and a staggering 20% did over 30 hours, that’s almost the equivalent of a full time job!
This is a curious result; haven’t the kids left home, aren’t we reducing the amount of hours we spend at work? Are we choosing to spend our “free” time doing domestic duties rather than enjoying life?
Come on ladies, what’s happening here?
It’s time we had a long hard look at what our priorities are? I’m tipping that separating whites from coloured is not high on the list! What happened to all those leisure activities we say “one day I’m going to ……”, why isn’t that day today?
Of course the reality is that domestic duties still need to be done, but do we need to them or could we be a bit more savvy in our approach to domestic duties?
Here are 8 tips that could help you reduce your domestic hours:
1. If you have a huge list of domestic projects you want to complete, write the down, better still schedule a time in your calendar to do them (but be realistic about time), once they are scheduled in your calendar you can forget about them until the due date arrives.
2. Only try to undertake one task at a time, and allocate the time for it and make it a regular thing? For example each Monday -paying bills (even set up auto payments so you have even less paper to manage), Tuesday – make personal appointments, Saturday – washing and so on.
3. Choose 10 meals you enjoy and rotate them for a few weeks. Make a standard grocery list to prepare those meals and just take the same list each time you visit the supermarket. Better still, do your grocery shopping online and save your grocery list so that each time you need supplies you can submit the same order.
4. Keep a supply of greeting cards on hand – just grab a few whenever you are buying something from a store that sells them – it is easier to find ones you like when you aren’t looking for a specific card. You can even buy greeting cards on line. Once a month over a glass of wine on a Sunday afternoon, write out all cards for the next month, address, and stamp them and put them in your bag ready to post.
5. Reduce the amount of times you handle things, for example fill the dishwasher as soon as you’ve finished your meal, action your mail as soon as you open it, empty your Inbox at the end of each day, fold clothes as soon as they come off the line – in other words only handle things once.
6. Always carry a note book jot down all those websites, stores or activities you want to check out. Staple in newspaper clippings or anything we need to know for later. No more random pieces of papers in the bottom of your bag or all over your desk.
7. Designate departure points in your home, even a departure bag – everything that needs to leave the home automatically gets put it the bag or designated departure point, nothing gets forgotten.
8. Outsourcing, why not send your laundry and ironing out – it’s actually a lot cheaper than you think?, Hire a cleaner, perhaps have a couple of meals delivered each week, ie Lite & Easy, or go all out and have your very own Personal Concierge/Lifestyle Manager/Professional Organiser.
Organising tip – Jewellery
Fast way to bring the sparkle back to your jewellery is to drop two denture-cleaning tablets into a glass of warm water, leave over night, rinse and dry – perfect!
Getting Organised, there are no excuses!
Do you ever feel overwhelmed and never know where to get started?
I am sure you can give me a million reasons/excuses why you can’t get organised – we have probably heard them all before!
Here are some very good reasons to start getting organised.
I don’t know where to start
Don’t think about this too much, just pick a room/area/space and start there. There is no real order in getting organised, just start somewhere. Sure you might choose the easiest place to start, but as long as you are moving forward and making progress it doesn’t matter. The more you do, the easier it will become. Try starting with small things like spending 15 minutes on a kitchen drawer and move onto larger projects as you gain confidence.
I’ve got so much stuff, it’s overwhelming
If the stuff “offends thee” get rid of the stuff! If necessary hire a skip to get rid of the rubbish, call your local charity and ask them to pick things up, have a garage sale, or sale on ebay!
I don’t have time, I’m super busy
Like with anything that is important in your life you always find time for it. We are all issued with the same 24 hours in each day, it’s up to us to take control of how we spend it. Even starting with just 15 minutes each day you’ll be surprised how quickly you will get started, put the time in your schedule and do it, your organising time should be non-negotiable. Never say “I’ll do it in my spare time” (who has spare time anyway), and if you do, wouldn’t you rather relax and spend with family and friends.
Isn’t there a fast way I can just get it sorted
Probably not! Think about how long it took you to accumulate all your things, probably years! Be realistic about how long a organising or decluttering project will take you. You won’t be able to declutter your entire house in a day or even a weekend, so start with smaller projects and do it frequently – if you want faster results, perhaps a Professional Organiser can help you.
But I don’t know how to!
There is lots of books and reference material on the internet – including our own website www.greenappleorganising.com.au that can offer you some wonderful advice on how to plan and execute your organising project – again you may need to hire a professional if you are really lost!
How do I know what to get rid of?
Once you get started some items will be quite obvious, but there is a rule we use, if you Love it Keep, it you don’t Loose it! (we have a Fact Sheet on Steps to Sorting Clutter which will give you a load of ideas!))
Mrs Neat married to Mr Messy
Can be quite tricky – but start on the things you can throw out or organise. Often when Mr Messy sees the results of your efforts they see the enormous benefits and get involved with their own things. Secondly, if Mr Messy try explaining (very calmly) that the clutter in your home makes you feel overwhelmed, stressed, embarrassed, anxious they may start to understand. Your partner should never want you to feel that way about anything and if they believe their stuff contributes to that they may choose to act. Make your “case” to your spouse about how it makes you feel rather than about the stuff.
And the kids …..
Quite often a case of Monkey See, Monkey Do – children will have learned from you about clutter and organisation. If you toss your handbag on the kitchen bench at the end of the day, the kids will do the same with their school bags etc, so it will require some retraining on your part to get them on board.
Organising tip – Kitchen
Fast simple way to clean any built up or food “explosions” off the interior of your microwave, put a cup of water into the microwave and put on high for about 2 minutes. The steam created by the boiling water will lift of any food and you can simply wipe it out without any scrubbing, keep repeating (if required) until it’s all done!
Green Apple and Leek Soup (Serves 4)
- 230g Leeks
- 1 Clove Garlic, Crushed
- 30g Butter
- 15ml Olive Oil
- 1 pinch Curry Powder
- 230g Turnips, Peeled and Diced
- 200g Green Apples, Peeled and Diced
- 500m Vegetable Stock
- Salt and Pepper to Taste
In a pan sauté the leeks and garlic in the butter and oil until tender. Add the curry powder and stir-fry lightly. After 1 minute add the turnips and apples and stir-fry everything together until tender.
Reduce the heat and add the chicken stock. Let simmer until the vegetables are tender and done.
Strain through a sieve reserving the liquid. Purée the vegetables in a blender until smooth.
Add to the reserved liquid and return to the pan. Season with salt and pepper and let simmer for a further 5 minutes.